Keep Flying!!!

....I wonder how much effort is put into the game of suitor chasing for flies? ..You find a female, her abdomen glistens just the right shade of teal.. her buzz is enchanting...and even the way she regurgitates on that delicious carcass for two..sigh..you can't keep your compound eyes of her! .. but you show a little interest in making her your only fly and it "buzz off!"... You're left wondering whether or not you should play the swarm a bit more... sow your wild oats a bit more so to speak.. I mean, if that kind of confidence is so attractive, maybe you should just start seeing a few different flies and then you wouldn't worry as much......... but then you remember..you've tried that before.. and yes, you might tickle a few antennas in your search, but inevitably it leaves you empty and you meet another gossamer winged beauty that you're really interested in and all you want is her... the meaningless mating with those other's is nothing to you..............and the moment that feeling occurs to you..right at that very moment...you loose half your appeal to that beauty you'd now take as your own.... Its seems almost cruel the way it works...but if you've got you head and thorax on straight you can just grow from it and not let it discourage you from getting back out there and enjoying the company of like-minded insects until you find that one you can really see yourself buzzing into the sunset with.... Keep flying little flies!!!